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Comment on another whatchacallit by Recovering Straight Girl

Recovering Straight Girl — Sat, 07 Jun 2008 16:29:29 +0000

You’re not a fuck up.

Have you read “The Verbally Abusive Relationship?” If you haven’t let me know and send me your address.

Comment on run by Caribbean

Caribbean — Wed, 04 Jun 2008 03:58:32 +0000

Caribbean says : I absolutely agree with this !

Comment on another whatchacallit by Kris

Kris — Mon, 02 Jun 2008 22:02:02 +0000

well…from what read, i never thought anyone called her a “fuck up” in this particular instance…i just assumed it was a “in her head conversation, and “in her head”, that is the direction the conversation went.

and i assumed, that her “another whatchmacallit” was another break-through of perhaps realizing she is pinning her ex’s reactions to her current spouse.

now i could be all wrong in my interpretation of what her story said, but that is what i got out of it.

regardless…it sounds like the “whatchamacallit” was an eye-opening experience for Traci and that is always good.

you are strong and a survivor…keep plowing forward.

Comment on another whatchacallit by Lyn

Lyn — Mon, 02 Jun 2008 03:32:54 +0000

That is such a common mistake. The good thing? Perhaps what’s-his-name will realize that he is following in the footsteps of that other jerk.

I don’t care what is going on between a couple, no one deserves that kind of language. Please listen to us here in your corner. We know you are anything but that.

Hugs, Traci, and just remember you are what you know you are, not what someone else says in anger.

Comment on another whatchacallit by Battle Weary

Battle Weary — Sat, 31 May 2008 17:38:18 +0000

I agree completely with Shari!

I used to be Fallen Angels…I replied to your email but don’t know if you got the reply. I made my blog private due to a stalker…then I decided I didn’t like having a private blog and have moved…completely new blog and screen name. I’m glad you emailed! I had lost your blog, also.

Comment on another whatchacallit by shari

shari — Fri, 30 May 2008 20:57:13 +0000

Rory, Tim, Bill or Bob… I don’t give a damn WHAT his name is, if he’s calling you a “fuck-up”, he’s in some serious shit with me.

I personally do not believe that accusations of any kind belong in intimate/familial relationships, and certainly not accusations of THAT kind. If he wants to take issue with some behavior or incident, or whatever, fine.. take issue with IT. But to misdirect his frustration or disappointment and aim it at YOU? The woman he LOVES??? He’s pissing me off.

Comment on run by Deb

Deb — Tue, 27 May 2008 19:03:25 +0000

These Aha moments are often filled with such difficult thoughts and emotions.

Comment on run by scribbleandscribe

scribbleandscribe — Sun, 25 May 2008 16:08:29 +0000

to learn this of yourself on your own should be honored. It’s harder than having help through it.
You are fine my friend. You have worked this to the surface on your own. Stronger than you even realize. What strength you have shown all your life.
The need to escape is there for many of us.
A friend described that she imagines a blue light surrounding her when she wanted to run, she called the light to surround her. I don’t know about all that but I do think that whatever it takes to bring get you through is what you should do.
I care, I’m not always good about visiting, but I consider you a lovely, loving, real friend.

Comment on run by Susie

Susie — Mon, 19 May 2008 22:02:28 +0000

Me, too. I’m here. Please don’t judge my friend, Traci, for how she’s doing this. She’s doing fine. And she will be finer.

Oh, honey. I wish I could give you a big hug, or a big whatever you’d like. And may I say, OH HELL YES, the unlearning is harder than the learning. The learning is done on autopilot, a reaction to stimulus. There is nothing automatic about the unlearning. It’s just hard work. But the paycheck is huge.

Comment on run by shari

shari — Mon, 19 May 2008 21:06:13 +0000

Wow. This seems big. I’m here with you, Twinnie.